Unless you’ve been living under a rock, the first thing you know is that men and women handle relationships differently. You don't have to choose between the lesser or two evils; staying in an empty and unhealthy relationship, or getting out of it entirely. Neither of these choices are acceptable, that's why you can't decide either way.
Relationships aren't easy. I can guide you through the process of finding yourself again. and help you learn to love yourself in a kinder and gentler way. When you find yourself, and know what you want, we'll uncover the path that will allow you to ask for what you want, and quit accepting what you don't.
No matter how it feels right now, God is not lost to you. Even if you can't find your faith in yourself, allow yourself the grace to believe in God's faith in you. He has always been there, and will be there to lean on when you need Him.
1) Understand how you got where you are.
2) Keep the focus on Your desired outcome.
3) Find your path from where you are,
to where you want to be.
As your coach, I am not here to judge you, or the mistakes you've made. I am not here to make decisions for you, or tell you what to do. There is no one-size-fits-all plan. There are no preconceived solutions to your problems.
Face it, you're a woman. What you need more than anything is the support of another woman who has been where you are.
Been there, Done That... Got the Merit Badge... Twice.
The reality is, I am not alone. According to the US Census Bureau, a full 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in Divorce. Make no mistake; I don't have the inside track on Divorce, I just have more experience than I ever thought I would.
After two divorces, I knew that I was the common denominator. I had to work on myself, my beliefs, my fears, and my misunderstandings about how relationships worked. But how? I looked for a self-help book, but they were either written by men, or by women that just told their stories, without any clues how to do things differently.
There I was, in my forties; half a continent away from my family, trying to put my life back together. After my first Divorce, I was Dented. After my second, I was broken. I wanted to believe that the best years of my life were yet to come.
I'm not a quitter, and I knew that if other women could do it, I could too. It took time, and lots of trial and error, but eventually I found myself happy and whole, living my life on my own terms. And that is when it all came together and I was ready for love. And he found me, right when I was ready.
With the support of my amazing friends, and talking with 100's of women who shared their stories and lesson learned, I not only Survived Divorce, wrote the book, built my own business, I the love of my life along the way.
I am blessed to help the most courageous women find the path and re-create lives full of love and happiness.
A Coach's job is to guide you through the inevitable emotional, and lifestyle changes and challenges that occur when your marriage ends.
I am not here to tell you what to do, but rather to offer insight into your options, and help you make decisions that are right for you.